HERE HE COMES, MR. CONNECTICUT. The race for a House seat from Connecticut could turn into a beauty pageant, pitting the made-for-TV looks of former Congressman Toby Moffett, an ex-anchorman for WVIT-TV in Hartford, against Michael Pacowta, the mayor of Shelton. Three years ago, Pacowta paraded across the stage on the Sally Jessy Raphael Show in silk p.j.s with black flowing bottoms and a leopard-spotted kimono. Pacowta says he showed restraint in his modeling: "She tried to get me into a pair of skimpy bikini shorts, but I said too much leg." He got to keep the outfit.